He shared the cute photo above and some inspirational words on
relationship. His partner, Stella Damasus in the comment section replied
thanking God for a man like him who is Intelligent, God fearing,
creative hardworking and other beautiful qualities. Read what he wrote and Stella's reply after the cut..
One
big lesson I've learnt about relationships...the importance of
LAUGHTER! Yeah. You've got to always find the need to laugh. Laugh with
yourselves. Laugh at yourselves. Laugh at your pain, differences and the
fact that one of you can NEVER have an America accent even if you've
been coming to America for 20 years! (Don't ask me who). Above all, find
the funny in every situation. It doesn't mean you won't have things to
fight, stress and cry about...but find the funny in all of it.Life
in itself is hard enough, why complicate it further by always
discussing serious issues when it's bed time, after a hard day's work?
Jeeeeez! Haven't you noticed that most times couples sit down to talk,
it's always about the kids, bills, the broken garage door that needs
fixing, work stress, plans for the future or the need to get therapy
(now I don't know where that came from 
).
Ask yourself, when was the last time you had a good laugh together? I
mean a good belly laugh. If it's an Instagram post, a YouTube video, a
comedy special on Netflix, the weird neighbor who always struggles with
the garbage can when it's trash day...find that funny! If you have to
put on your wife's wig and perform a Beyoncé song holding the hairbrush
as a microphone...do it and have some fun! (Come to me for lessons).
It's so easy to find the pain and hurt in a situation but if you relax
and look closer, you'll find the funny.
People
have quizzed me why I can be very silly sometimes. It's simple, HE WHO
LAUGHS IS THE ONE WHO LASTS. I intend to last as long as age 120.
Hahaha! Don't expect to see ONLY serious stuff on my social media pages.
Life is serious so I'm not gonna take everything so seriously and miss
out on the funny things life has to offer me. I've got God's Love on my
side, I have Jesus in my heart and the Holy Spirit always available to
guide me...well, I've got no choice but to find the funny in my
relationship.
So as you get to bed tonight,
find that funny. Tell a dry joke. If he/she doesn't laugh at the joke
then you have to laugh at how dry and silly your joke was. Stay blessed
people and have a funny week ahead.
Stella replied his post saying; "you
have got my love too boo. Thank God for a man like you who is so
intelligent, God fearing, creative, hardworking, loving and very very
funny. You brought the laughter back into my life. Thank you for this
inspiring message. It's time to do that seminar honey. There are too
many things some people need to hear you say. If only the world knew
what you had to offer. I am inspired every single day by you. Love you
too much."
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